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The Things We Men Pilots Do to Impress Women

Some reminders of what not to attempt when you want to ‘go see about a girl’ in your airplane.

FLYING contributor Ben Younger says most women would not be impressed by risky pilot decision-making in the least. [Courtesy: Ben Younger]
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Key Takeaways:

  • The author recounts a fatal plane crash where a pilot flew in dangerous conditions to see his girlfriend, attributing such male risk-taking in aviation to hormonal drives and tunnel vision.
  • He shares personal anecdotes of his own past, dangerous flights undertaken to impress or avoid disappointing women, highlighting how lower testosterone levels have since brought him clarity and a safety-oriented perspective.
  • The article advises young male pilots that women value safety, patience, and common sense, and that reckless flying to impress them is both dangerous and ultimately ineffective.
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Some years ago, I visited a friend of mine who is the manager of a private mountain airstrip. He said he had something to show me. We jumped in a side-by-side and drove up into the surrounding hills on a fire road. We then exited onto a freshly cut dirt trail that went directly up the side of a mountain.

After a few minutes of a steep, rough ride, we emerged into a clearing in the otherwise dense forest. Burn marks surrounded the mysterious, misshapen circle, and the ground was scorched black. Looking around, I could not find the culprit. It looked as if a fiery, pancake meteor had hit the earth, resulting in a non-crater.

Ben Younger

Ben Younger is a TV and film writer/director, avid motorcyclist and surfer—but it’s being a pilot that he treats as a second profession. Find him on Instagram @thisisbenyounger.

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