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Leading Edge: Speak. Up.

The author no longer has an issue asking for help from women smarter than him. Courtesy Ben Younger
Gemini Sparkle

Key Takeaways:

  • Men, in particular, often struggle to ask for help, viewing it as a sign of weakness or incompetence, even in situations with serious consequences.
  • This reluctance to seek assistance, especially in aviation, can lead to dangerous situations and accidents due to pride and the avoidance of admitting mistakes.
  • Open communication with air traffic control and seeking help when needed is crucial for safety, and controllers are generally supportive when pilots honestly express their difficulties.
  • Overcoming the ingrained societal pressure to appear self-sufficient is vital for pilots and individuals in general to ensure safety and improve outcomes.
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Before GPS, when Rand McNally’s paper maps ruled the day, pulling over on a country road in a small town to ask for directions never felt like failure to me. I saw it as a chance to meet someone new, maybe find out where to get lunch. Likewise, when flying, I am not a man who has a problem with asking for help. I’ve learned that it is better to underestimate your abilities than to think too highly of them. In an airplane, when your reach exceeds your grasp, your insurance carrier may become involved—sometimes, the NTSB.

Ben Younger

Ben Younger is a TV and film writer/director, avid motorcyclist and surfer—but it’s being a pilot that he treats as a second profession. Find him on Instagram @thisisbenyounger.

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