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Leading Edge: Speak. Up.

The author no longer has an issue asking for help from women smarter than him. Courtesy Ben Younger
Gemini Sparkle

Key Takeaways:

  • Men often avoid asking for help or admitting ignorance due to ego and societal pressures, viewing it as a failure rather than an opportunity for growth and better outcomes.
  • This reluctance, labeled "quiet machismo," is particularly dangerous in aviation, where pilots frequently prioritize ego over safety, leading to serious accidents by refusing to declare emergencies or communicate distress.
  • The author advocates for overcoming this inherent struggle by embracing humility and open communication, emphasizing that seeking assistance is not only beneficial but often met with support and improved results.
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Before GPS, when Rand McNally’s paper maps ruled the day, pulling over on a country road in a small town to ask for directions never felt like failure to me. I saw it as a chance to meet someone new, maybe find out where to get lunch. Likewise, when flying, I am not a man who has a problem with asking for help. I’ve learned that it is better to underestimate your abilities than to think too highly of them. In an airplane, when your reach exceeds your grasp, your insurance carrier may become involved—sometimes, the NTSB.

Ben Younger

Ben Younger is a TV and film writer/director, avid motorcyclist and surfer—but it’s being a pilot that he treats as a second profession. Find him on Instagram @thisisbenyounger.

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